Thursday, December 26, 2013

Our Christmas in Munich

We are in the land of Christmas. The Christmas markets - which I featured pictures of in my last entry - went up shortly after Thanksgiving and are open seven days a week all day through Christmas eve. We enjoyed walking through them - shuffling through them, really. They are quite crowded, but, as everyone is happy, that's okay. I think we ate more than we bought gifts, but that, too, is okay. We particularly enjoyed Thor's Hammer which is mead with a shot of Irish whiskey. We also drank Feuerzungenbowle (fire tongue bowl, also known as Feuerzongenbowle) which is mead with sugar and rum added. It is served in a special goblet which has a lip extending from the side (kind of like a sippy cup, but there is no lid to cover the goblet). In this lip or shelf is placed a sugar cube. The goblet is filled with gluehwein, strong rum is poured in and over the sugar cube and the entire concoction is lit. You blow it our (duh!) then wait for the sugar cube to cool and sip the gluehwein through the sugar cube. Yum.



The official drinking vessel of Feuerzungenbowle


Unlike Tashkent where there were no Christmas trees, I was able to find a tree here not too far from home. I walked about a half mile to a an open square where they were being sold. I chose one and carried it home. Yes, I had to carry it home. My muscles hurt for days. Although our car arrived before we did, it has been an ordeal getting it and us licensed.



The Christmas tree lot in Odeonsplatz


About a week before Christmas, we walked to a concert by the Moscow Cathedral choir, a boys and young men's choir. The booming, manly sounds of the men paired with the cherubic sounds of the boys was a perfect way to head into Christmas. The personality of some of the boys was very evident in their stage presence. One boy managed to be simultaneously focused and squirmy. Two boys who stood right in front of the conductor elbowed each other giggling through one song. I don't know how they evaded the eye of the conductor. Another boy, who was singing, was looking off to the side. The conductor slowly walked towards him and gently touched the hand holding the music folder never breaking his conducting beat. The boy's attention was returned to where it needed to be. There were two boys who stood next to each other who, for some reason, I noticed early on. I remember thinking, "They must be the cream of the crop". Later, one of them stepped up for a solo.

I used the Frugal Gourmet Christmas cookbook (the only cookbook, I believe, I have ever actually purchased and the only one I have read cover to cover) to plan our Christmas dinner. I decided on Crown Roast of Pork as the main dish. It sounded way too big for the two of us so I substituted a pork loin, but otherwise used all the seasonings called for - fresh, whole sage and thyme. To accompany it I made the suggested sausage stuffing. I'm not sure why it's called stuffing when it's not being stuffed into anything except our mouths. I made roasted potatoes which required over two hours of oven time so I made them the day before saving the final broiler step for Christmas day. They baked for an hour with butter and garlic - boy, did the apartment smell good - and another hour in chicken broth. When Christmas day came, I forgot all about them. They were still sitting on the balcony in our outdoor refrigerator. Finally I made baked onions. Neither Doug nor I had ever eaten an entire onion (unless you count Bloomin' Onions) so we weren't too sure whether or not we'd like them. They were boiled in chicken broth then baked. They were so sweet, we loved them.



The entire Christmas dinner (including the potatoes)


After we stuffed ourselves, we walked about a mile and a half to see the St. Petersburg Ballet Company present the Nutcracker ballet. The day was perfect - in the forties, floating clouds, little wind. The performance wasn't the best - like I'm a critic. First, it was danced to prerecorded music. The start of every dance sequence always came as a bit of a surprise to all on stage. There was more posturing and posing than challenging dancing. But, as it was Christmas day, it was delightful. It was opened with a storyteller telling the story (in German). Then a mirrored jester came out. He was quite a sight. He literally glowed. He stood before a tray of water glasses and played bits of the melodies on these tuned water glasses. It was very pretty, mystical and captivating. He had to watch what he was doing, of course, but he was able to look up at the audience. I write 'at' in italics because I could tell he was looking at people, at their reactions, not just glancing up for good stage presence. He made several more appearances throughout the ballet. I realized what a sexist environment the ballet is. And, this time, not against women. The men often are, in Doug's words, props to hold up, balance and gesture to the women. I don't know ballet audience etiquette. I was taken aback when, early on, a male dancer came out and danced, I thought, quite well - a solo. When he finished I started to clap. No one else did, so I stopped. Next came a female dancer who also did a very good job. Everyone burst into applause. After the pas de deux, having both danced splendidly -really danced, finally - the couple took their bows, or, rather he stood back while she dramatically bowed and bowed and bowed. I was so put out, I stopped clapping. I didn't want to encourage that. I know I'm not a ballet aficionado, but, when I sang in the opera chorus, all the principal singers took their appropriate curtain calls, not just the women. Perhaps someone reading this can explain this to me.

Our apartment is in the middle of about four or five churches that all have bells that peal throughout the day. They were particularly active Christmas eve, Christmas day and the 26th (which is also a German holiday - the second day of Christmas - no turtle doves). When they all get going at once it is glorious, soothing and just lovely. My mom told me that there was a church somewhere in Phoenix that installed bells and the neighbors complained. How sad. I can understand wanting quiet, but I don't understand picking on the gentle sound of church bells. No it is not necessary, I also understand that. And sometimes any sound is irritating. Leaf blowers and lawn mowers are not necessary, yet for some reason that painful, irritating sound goes unchallenged. I'm glad I'm in Germany right now to hear these bells.


Monday, December 9, 2013

Advent

It is Advent (of which I've written before in my "If I Can" blog - December 1, 2009) and this year in my waiting I find myself not merely waiting, but anticipating and moving forward.

I'm trying to learn to be more mindful and it stands to reason that the season of waiting - Advent - would be good practice. But there must be something I'm mindful of. If I am waiting, I am mindful of what is to come. But if I am being mindful of what is to come, then I am anticipating, thus the mindfulness and forward movement. What can I do now in anticipation while I wait for the future?

Before moving to Germany I decided to make my time here a time of conclusions. Specifically of several stories (novels, really) that I've been writing for years. Then fate kindly stepped in (which it rarely does in a kindly manner) and, when I asked Douglas what he wanted for his birthday, he answered, "I want you to finish one of your stories to the point you can send it to an editor. It doesn't have to be by this birthday, just before we leave Germany."

I love Douglas.

So, while I wait, as I anticipate, I sit and make forward progress (page 50 something as I write - feel free to check up on that page number from time to time) on one of my novels.

But it's Advent and Advent is the time during which we wait for Christmas.



A scene from the Marienplatz Christmas Market - the largest in Munich


These years, Christmas brings memories to me. Memories of anticipation because, as a child, it always felt as though I were waiting for something.

For instance, I always knew something good was about to happen when I noticed that my mother had set out butter to soften. Would it go in candy or cookies?





And my father would get a certain look on his face as he strolled into my room shaking car keys. I knew he wanted company on an errand and he was in one of those moods - maybe we'd stop for candy (don't tell mom).



The sight of the UPS (or FedEX, DHL, whichever) truck stopping in front of our house always caused excitement - read anticipation. The bigger the box the more excitement.



Here in Munich I've started a new practice. Just before Douglas comes home, I turn off most of the lights in the apartment and light a single candle in the entryway. I hope it looks gentle, soft, relaxing and welcoming. I hope it tells him that he's home now and no longer needs to work. I hope it tells him that this is his time - our time.



I like how, in the Jewish faith, the Sabbath day - the day of rest - begins at sundown the evening before. They prepare. They anticipate. Sabbath, I believe, is God's way of telling us "Relax, this is your time, our time."


The Christmas market is in the square of the famous Glockenspiel, a beautiful setting.